In a viral Reddit post published on r/AmITheA**hole, Redditor u/Longjumping-Base-926 (otherwise referred to as the original poster, or OP) said both she and her sister are pregnant but have taken dramatically different approaches when it comes to naming their newest family members.

Titled, “[Am I the a**hole] for telling my sister to focus on her own kid’s name and worry less about mine?” the post has received nearly 7,500 upvotes and 3,500 comments in the last 11 hours.

“My sister and I are both pregnant at the same time,” OP began. “She’s 30 and I’m 24.”

Continuing to explain that her sister announced her son’s name in April, the original poster said she kept her daughter’s name a secret until she was asked directly, at which point she revealed that she had settled on the name Oceana.

The original poster also said that her sister was incensed by the name and almost immediately launched a no-holds-barred campaign to change it.

“She was not impressed,” OP wrote. “She asked me what was wrong with a name like Elizabeth or maybe a little Beatrice or Margaret.”

“I told her to stop,” OP continued. “We knew our girl’s name before we even knew she was a girl and it wasn’t going to change for her.”

Despite her insistence that Oceana will be her daughter’s name, however, the original poster said her sister refused to take no for an answer.

“She went into a [Facebook] mommy group and…went on a long a** rant about how my taste in names is terrible and how she’s shocked…that I am ruining my child’s life,” OP wrote. “The last time I saw her was three weeks ago and she was giving me more names to consider.

“I rolled my eyes and told her to focus on her own kids’ names instead of mine, and that she needs to get over it,” OP added. “She told me I should not want to name my child something her family will hate.”

For expecting parents around the world, familial excitement over potential baby names can be overwhelming, but understandable for obvious reasons.

However, not all baby-name energy is positive.

Although parents reserve the right to name their own children, family input is inevitable and, in some cases, infuriating.

No matter the name, there will be family members who disagree and make their displeasure known at every turn. But it is imperative that parents stand their ground and trust that relationships with disgruntled relatives will win out, causing name-related disdain to dissipate quickly.

“Make it clear to your family that you love and value them, but in the end, the decision is yours to make,” parenting website Very Well Family advises.

On multiple occasions throughout her viral Reddit post, the original poster said she attempted to convey that exact message to her sister and made it clear that her daughter’s name was set in stone—even if a group of Facebook moms thought it shouldn’t be.

Redditors responding to the viral post defended this position, assuring the original poster that her daughter’s name choice is hers to make, and nobody else’s.

“[Not the a**hole],” Redditor u/TheGriswoldFamily wrote in the post’s top comment, which has received nearly 21,000 upvotes. “I think [Oceana] is a stupid name for the record but it’s none of my damned business.”

“Oceana is unusual but not awful or offensive,” Redditor u/Obsidian-Winter echoed, receiving more than 5,000 upvotes. “Your sister needs to butt out.”

Redditor u/BlueLavender1014, whose comment has received nearly 3,000 upvotes, offered a similar response.

“[Not the a**hole],” they wrote. “Yeah, that name is weird…but it’s not the worst name in the universe so it’s none of her business.”

“She’ll just have to get over herself,” Redditor u/darthrobyn chimed in, receiving nearly 2,000 upvotes. “There are so many truly awful names out there that would ruin a future, but [Oceana] isn’t it.”

Newsweek reached out to u/Longjumping-Base-926 for comment.